Time for a night out for some retro 80′s music and martinis 🙂Â
It was pouring and very windy all day. So much so that my umbrella broke! My hair got all frizzy, but whatever the girls were expecting me to come out, and it was a blast!
-Ari
Unfortunately, it is time to bring this back and add it to my posts for the foreseeable future..
My goal in sharing my transition is to represent transgender people in the positive light that we all deserve. Re-blogs are always okay if they are for this purpose, but if you are a fetish blog or fetish website then I want nothing to do with you and you do not have my permission to use my images.
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TO CLARIFY IF THESE WORDS ARE NOT CLEAR.. IF YOUR BLOG IS ABOUT OBJECTIFYING WOMEN OR SPECIFICALLY TRANSGENDER WOMEN THEN I DO NOT WANT MY PICTURES ON IT. THAT IS NOT THE PURPOSE OF MY BLOG. AS AN EXAMPLE.. I WAS RECENTLY RE-BLOGGED TO A BLOG TITLED “Beautiful Women with a Little Something Extra” Â
YOU SAY YOU APPRECIATE TRANSGENDER WOMEN?? IF THAT WAS TRUE YOU WOULD TREAT US LIKE ANY OTHER WOMAN. STOP FOCUSING ON WHAT YOU THINK MIGHT BE IN OUR PANTS. YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT “PARTS” WE HAVE UNLESS YOU ARE LOOKING AT A TRANSGENDER WOMAN WHO IS OBVIOUSLY OKAY WITH SHARING THAT ASPECT OF THEMSELVES. IT IS MUCH EASIER TO OBTAIN GENDER CONFIRMATION SURGERY NOW.. SO STOP ASSUMING AND STOP OBJECTIFYING!
…AND THAT GOES DOUBLE FOR BLOGS TITLED.. “SISSIES” OR “CROSSDRESSERS” – I AM NEITHER. I AM A TRANSGENDER WOMAN WHO WEARS THE APPROPRIATE CLOTHING FOR MY GENDER. WEARING THIS CLOTHING DOES NOT TURN ME ON. I ENJOY A GOOD OUTFIT BECAUSE IT MAKES ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF, NOT FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE. DO NOT RE-BLOG/ADD ME TO THESE SITES OR BLOGS.
I blog and I am open about my transition to help other transgender and gender non-conforming people, to spread awareness, and to share my joy at living happily as myself. This blog is primarily for those people, but it is also for cisgender people who are open to learning about what transgender people actually experience and who are hopefully willing to be allies to the LGBT community.Â
I am not interested in being your fetish source and I am not interested in snap-chatting with strangers.Â
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-Ari